According to legend, a young man
while roaming the desert came across a spring of delicious crystal-clear water.
The water was so sweet he filled his leather canteen so he could bring some
back to a tribal elder who had been his teacher. After a four-day journey he
presented the water to the old man who took a deep drink, smiled warmly and
thanked his student lavishly for the sweet water. The young man returned to his
village with a happy heart.
Later, the teacher let another
student taste the water. He spat it out, saying it was awful. It apparently had
become stale because of the old leather container. The student challenged his
teacher: "Master, the water was foul. Why did you pretend to like it?"
The teacher replied, "You
only tasted the water. I tasted the gift. The water was simply the container
for an act of loving-kindness and nothing could be sweeter."
I think we understand this lesson
best when we receive innocent gifts of love from young children. Whether it's a
ceramic tray or a macaroni bracelet, the natural and proper response is
appreciation and expressed thankfulness because we love the idea within the
gift.
Gratitude doesn't always come
naturally. Unfortunately, most children and many adults value only the thing
given rather than the feeling embodied in it. We should remind ourselves and
teach our children about the beauty and purity of feelings and expressions of
gratitude. After all, gifts from the heart are really gifts of the heart.
Its a good old tale tale for most
of us would have read this but the learnings are so true.
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